Tuesday, January 12, 2010

How can I light a fire under you?

How can I light a fire under you? Has our readership become numb to the cavalcade of story after story after story reporting about men and boys being falsely accused of rape with little or no repercussion to the wrongdoer? Have we developed battle fatigue to the never-ending barrage?

How can I light a fire under you?

The following is one of the most serious issue in the entire men's rights movement, and we need every reader not only to be aware of it, but to be outraged by it. Sometime soon, I am going to write an article chronicling the news stories of the recent past where men and boys were arrested and jailed solely on the basis of a woman's rape allegation that turned out to be false. The scope of that article will be mind-boggling -- and, I would hope -- frightening to fair-minded people, because it happens over and over and over. But very few persons outside of this Web site express either outrage or alarm over it, and that is a tragedy. There is something terribly wrong with a system that permits -- no, encourages -- men and boys to be jailed, usually with bail set so high to insure they won't get out until there is a recantation or an adjudication, based on nothing more than a woman's allegation. Time after time we read of police practices where the male is arrested and only later do police bother to fully investigate and discover the falsehood. This, of course, needs to be reversed.

This may be the number one issue in the entire men's movement. It has my vote for being the most outrageous. What is astounding to me is that we don't have a hell of a lot more men's rights advocates speaking out about this atrocious practice. I mean it. Why is FRS among the few voices crying out in the desert about a matter so obviously and so terribly serious?

In less than 24 hours, we have posted no fewer than three stories where this point is well illustrated.

There was the alleged "victim" (that's how the accuser is described in the police blotter) who supposedly stopped resisting her husband's demands for sex because she was fearful. She had him arrested even though he denied forcing her to have sex. "Authorities booked the suspect on suspicion of spousal battery and spousal rape. Bail was set at $100,000." In "he said/she said" disputes, she wins.

Then there was the innocent young father who was wrongly arrested at his place of employment after his accuser told police she was raped when she was at his house picking up the couple's children as part of their shared custody. Three days after the arrest, the investigators began looking into the woman and learned she fabricated the incident to gain the upper hand in the custody case. (Oh, and her bond was set at one-tenth the amount of the bond for the husband in the story referenced in the previous paragraph.)

And there was the innocent male motorist falsely accused of rape by a lonely woman in need of attention. He was arrested first before medics bothered to check to see if her scratches were self-inflicted. They were. You see, even crazy women can have innocent males arrested under the policy of "destroy the accused's life first, ask questions later."

And those, ladies and gentlemen, are just the stories we've posted here in less than the past twenty-four hours. Wait until you see an article chronicling such cases reported in the mainstream media over the past year -- it will make fair-minded people weep.

The lesson is obvious, but one not enough people are talking about: we need to demand that our police be something more than "muscle" for vengeful or troubled false rape accusers, and that our journalists be something more than parrots for the police.

How can I light a fire under you?

31 comments:

Anonymous said...

Consider it lit. Great article.

Snark said...

I've been working on a big post, or series of posts, for a while now, on this subject, but the task is so gargantuan compared to my usual, relatively short posts, that I seem to have let it slide.

It will be completed, there's no doubt about that.

But what can I do beyond this?

I mean, I'm every bit as outraged as you are.

But what else can I do? The fire is burning away, but I don't know what to do about it.

Archivist said...

You are doing it, Snark. We need people like you and me.

This movement needs more real-world examples and less theorizing. Less reacting to the "feminists." I am as guilty as anyone of these excesses, but I do try to keep my eye on the real stories.

What I want to do is alarm people with one true story after the next of innocent men -- just like them or their husbands or boyfriends or fathers or sons or brothers: I want the world to know this happens a lot, and that it could happen to them or a male they love. We need people to be outraged by it, and to protest it whenever they see it.

Anonymous said...

Speaking for myself...

until the bomb dropped on me, I was living in blissful ignorance.

it sounds trite, but it really was as simple as that...

however, now I have been made aware of it... I have to deal with my own personal shitstorm first.

AfOR

Archivist said...

AfOR's story is sadly too common. Most people doesn't know this goes on. Period. We need to educate them. It not only goes on, it's common, and there's nothing an innocent male can do to stop it.

Anonymous said...

As much as I dislike google, it is our ally in this.

All it takes is adding to this site day by day, and linking between this site and related sites, and you start to go up the rankings...

Google "false rape" and this site comes up on the first page.

Google "rape" and it doesn't.

What does is the stuff that is linked to and from other sites more than this site.

The remedy is clear.

AfOR

Mary H said...

You are absolutely correct, I have cried in my coffee so much since my son’s arrest that not only is my coffee weak, but so is the rage I once experienced. YOU are right the fire is dying; it is slowly being replaced by self pity. In most cases actions speak louder than words, you took the first step for all of us by creating the site, but we must persevere. I shall never forget the overwhelming sense of excitement I experienced when I stumbled upon The False Rape Society, I wanted to scream, “I am not alone!” I will find a direction and take it; I will do all I can and then some to raise public awareness of this horrific madness. Once again let me state my gratitude to you and everyone else on this site, you have helped so very much, I will now try to return the favor.

Snark said...

"however, now I have been made aware of it... I have to deal with my own personal shitstorm first."

Of course you do, AfOR.

No sane person would begrudge you, or anyone, for focusing solely on their own dilemma when it happens to them.

It is only those of us with the luxury of not having a false accusation around our necks who should be expected to do more.

Anonymous said...

The current gender feminist / law enforcement missinformation Alliance is a perversion of our legal system that will not stand the test of time.
Using state and federal dollars to manufacture faulty and inflamatory missinformation that builds a prejudice against the innocent is un-constitutional. The Alliance of perversion is deeper in more liberal areas than it is in more conservative areas of the country.
It may be the conservative states that forgo the "pervert dollars"...in return for getting their legal system back in order.

Pierce Harlan said...

Mary H -- thanks very much for your enthusiasm. It is for people like you that we created this site.

Let us lock up the rapists. But let us insist that we treat the presumed innocent as if we really did presume their innocence. Instead we are locking up the rapists along with the innocent and presuming all of their guilt from the moment they are accused.

How do I say it any plainer? We are the heirs of a great and storied legal heritage, stretching back to Mosaic law and extending through the Anglo-Saxon tradition, Magna Carta, Common law, and in the U.S., our Constitution, one of the most perfect documents ever devised by man. Our legal tradition has been a long and often painful march against the forces of tyranny. But the way that men and boys accused of rape are treated by the state -- jailed with no evidence except the say-so of even a mad woman -- is not consonant with this long march. In fact, Lady Justice weeps over their treatment, and so must we all. And we must be outraged for them, not only because they are our brothers, but they could be -- us.

Anonymous said...

Pierce, the fire is allready lit my friend, you only started this site 1.5 years ago, Give it time.
Just keeping it going until the spark turns into a flame is what you need to do, and yer doing it!! God bless you sir!! don't ever get tired and give up, you're one of the greatest voices in this area right now.

Anonymous said...

Part 1 of 3:
As one falsely accused, my current life reminds me of a quote from Babylon 5 from the episode: Z’ha’dum. "'There is a greater darkness than the one we fight. It is the darkness of the soul that has lost its way. The war we fight is not against powers and principalities, it is against chaos and despair. Greater than the death of flesh is the death of hope, the death of dreams. Against this peril we can never surrender. The future is all around us, waiting, in moments of transition, to be born in moments of revelation. No one knows the shape of that future or where it will take us. We know only that it is always born in pain.'"

I still have hope.

For every new story that comes out with FRA's, especially those linked by this site, I have been posting links back from the news article to the False Rape Society (FRS) site. In some cases, I've seen that someone from here has already beat me to it. Good on us!

It would help to have the support of the media, even if it is alternative news media, to get the story out there. Any recommendations as to who those media types would be?

My own thoughts:

Alex Jones
http://www.infowars.com/

Alex is a consipracy theorist, but we here at FRS are conspiracy factualists, so it might be a good fit.

George Noory
http://www.coasttocoastam.com

Coast to Coast has a wide variety of non-mainstream news topics and usually cover news that becomes mainstream years later. George would do a great job covering this issue if we could find a speaker to talk with him on the issue.

PBS's Frontline http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/

Frontline would cover this issue fairly and in depth if we could convince them to do it.

Michael Moore
http://michaelmoore.com/

Maybe he could make a movie to follow up "Sicko" -- "Rapo" ??

Spike Lee
http://www.40acres.com/

This subject would strike home with so many in the African American community, and Spike has already done work on Kobe Bryant. The things we falsely accused have been through would make for a riveting movie script or documentary.

It would be great if Pierce or others from this site, could get on to one of these shows and talk about these issues or approach those documentary/movie makers with the idea. Maybe it could be worked into a group project as a letter writing campaign. I could easily see this issue turned into an investigative documentary on Frontline!

I too was living in ignorance until the false rape accusation nuke was dropped. I can't pursue my line of work, and I can't look for similar work because most of the applications say "are you currently under investigation" or some such. So, I wait and rely on friends and family for sustenance and support. -continued-

Anonymous said...

Part 2 of 3
Things that could help:
It would be helpful if someone put together a resource list for those falsely accused. Of potential interest on False Rape Accusation (FRA) issues are:
* Changes in state/federal rape shield laws that that help or are at odds with Constitutional protections (5th,6th/14th amendment issues)
* General guidelines on what to do when facing false accusations,
like Demosthenes Lorandos has already done: http://www.youtube.com/user/AccusedFalsely#g/u
* Hard data court cases by state involving rape that could be used for statistical purposes (example from Texas posted elsehwere on this site: http://www.courts.state.tx.us/pubs/AR2009/toc.htm
* A compendium of everyone's favorite internet resources and links concerning the FRA issue
* Favorite books on this subject
* Since most of the false rape accusations appear to come from those with mental health issues, how about a list of articles and resources that highlight the most common medical conditions and mental disorders that are found in false accusers? Peer-reviewed forensic, medical, and psychiatric journals are replete with such articles. There are books out there, too.
* DNA and Forensics issues
* Related topics like PA and SAID syndrome
* Basically, I want a one-stop resource that covers all aspects of FRA's

Part of what makes one fall into despair is a lack of focus and isolation. Isolation is in fact the ultimate poison, especially for the accused: http://howardbloom.net/lucifer/excerpt2.html
The more mainstream media time is dedicated to this issue the less isolation we'll likely feel. Isolation is also an illusion. And I want everyone to know about the FRA "Matrix" and to be able to offer them the Blue or the Red pill! Radio, Television and Film media is the best place to get the message out to the largest numbers in the shortest time.

So how do we light the fire?
To me, the fire can be lit by:
*choosing a coordinator/leader to manage this as a project (Someone else close to this site, perhaps?)
*consolidating and organizing the information on the issue so that it can better be presented to the mainstream and alternative media as well as producers, directors, and others with projective power.
* obtaining good copy writing to promote this issue as one is supposed to promote oneself when looking for work: '30-second elevator commercial','5-minute speech','full interview topic 1-hour talk' If you had a couple of paragraphs or 30 seconds to relay this issue to someone with projective power, or other authority, or someone with a vested interest: what would you write or say to them? Can you fit it onto the back of a business card?
* appealing in an organized fashion to those with the potential for greater media coverage to take up the issue as in the few examples mentioned above. Responding to news media article with the template that Pierce has provided concerning rape "victims" is a great start, but we need to encourage those most affected to take a stand or at least be aware (and afraid for their lives). How about contacting a reporter(s) of every newspaper in our respective countries to look into the issue? How many magazines and newspapers would be receptive to articles and would do news stories on this topic?
* finding ways to obtain media buys and commercial sponsorship or free airtime on public access networks with spots that address the FRA issue
* discovering talent within our group -- perhaps we have a grant writer among us who could look into government grants for research or other government assistance
* posting the same news articles posted here on http://www.fark.com which has a wide audience and would promote greater awareness and discussion
-continued-

Anonymous said...

Part 3 of 3
Question: What if the whole world knew everything that we knew about the state of False Rape Accusations in the US and around the world? What would happen?

What do you want as an outcome for our efforts?
(For Me: If I could only have one thing, it would be to make the Rape Shield Laws cover the accused and accuser alike and enforce total media blackouts on the case until it was completed. You may have other priorities, but it would be interesting to discuss).

In terms of outcomes, what takes priority and what is most important? Education? Political Action? Changes in Legislation?

If you all really want to change things, then the message needs organization, consolidation, promotion, and projection. The message needs promoters, advocates, philosphers, legal scholars, legisators, free thinkers, critical thinkers, and the accused and their affected communities to come forward.

In many ways, it's just like a political campaign (and this issue is so embroiled in politcs anyway). The same media strategies that got Obama elected (or have enabled special interest groups to get the insanely unfair and unjust gender-biased SA laws on the books in the first place) would also work for the FRA awareness cause as long as the message we project is concise and compelling. The message must answer the questions for those exposed:
1) What's in it for (or how does it affect) me?
2) What can I do to help?
and then provide simple ways for them to become involved (or to withdraw if need be).

While being falsely accused is not our fault, it is our responsibility. I hope that this year we can get the False Rape Accusation issue the attention and treatment it deserves.

I know all of this is poor tinder for your fire, but there it is.

PS --
When I lose focus (and I have so lost my focus since being falsely accused), I ask myself the following questions to get my focus and energy back:
Who are you?
What do you want?
Why are you here?
Where are you going?
Whom do you serve?
Who do you trust?
How do you know?

Wise and Compassionate Action is the fire.
Thoughts and words are the fuel.

Anonymous said...

This should put a fire under everyone (or cause one to get lit):

Can sex offenders be held after serving criminal sentences?
http://www.cnn.com/2010/CRIME/01/12/scotus.sex.offender.law/index.html

Pierce Harlan said...

Anon, will have more to say on your post, but thanks for writing. I think it is time to zero in on where we're going. There are three principal areas we need to pound on: the absence of serious deterrence of false rape claims (due to non-existent or inadquate sentencing); the common practice of arresting based on a lone accusation prior to investigating; and the reputational harm to the falsely accused from the lack of anonymity.

It is time to write some very serious pieces to be circulated mainstream publications. We need to raise the legitimacy of our fight.

Anonymous said...

@ 3 part poster.

good stuff, respect...

You can bet your testicles the only two outcomes for me are going to be;

a/ convicted and imprisoned.
b/ screaming from the (web)servers

I have a new hobby in waiting.. lol

AfOR

Kumbe said...

Pierce,
You are a class act!
I respect the professionalism you bring which is the only way our voice will take flight. You are quite right about our image needing a PR make-over as to be viewed as legit and less angry or anti-woman. The facts always tell the false rape story best.

I am with you brother on your vision! I shall assist in any way you feel needed. Thank you for the analysis and the response.

Good Luck Pierce, if anybody can do it, you can!!!

Your friend,
Kumbe

Mary H said...

You are right!! We need to put hard hitting material together, and then send it out, to the media, all sources. Let us not stop there, politicians need to be aware also, and never underestimate the power of the ever popular “televangelist.” Invite them to visit the FRS site, which should make their collective eyes pop open. We have several different media sources to use to enlighten the general populous, and it is our charge to do so. We must communicate our concerns to them; we must not let them ignore this travesty of justice any longer. Our judicial system has let us all down concerning this matter. It seems that everyone is in someone’s back pocket, so we must find out who put their pants on last and ask them the hard-hitting questions. We owe it to ourselves, the ones we love and most especially to the man that brought us all together to finish what he has started.

Anonymous said...

You guys *must* be aware (see the recent van morrison to be a dad stories) that nowadays "journalism" means repeating anything that is found repeated on a half dozen or more different domains.

I'm not saying other approaches are wrong, rather I am saying that all approaches, simultaneously, are right.

In these days of computerisation, it is trivial to copy paste between email / document / web site / blog / wiki / etc

AfOR

Norm said...

I think probably the main thing with this is the mentality, "better safe than sorry" - at least, that is what the police are going on. They figure they might as well lock up a guy, because if he really did do something and he's not held, then he may beat or rape 'again', then the police (and perhaps the city) would be looking at a lawsuit and nationwide anger.

Anonymous said...

Pierce

I wish I owned a newspaper or better yet a major tv network.

I would give you your own show.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous said...
As much as I dislike google, it is our ally in this.

All it takes is adding to this site day by day, and linking between this site and related sites, and you start to go up the rankings...

Google "false rape" and this site comes up on the first page.

Google "rape" and it doesn't.

What does is the stuff that is linked to and from other sites more than this site.

The remedy is clear.

AfOR

Jan 12, 2010 10:05:00 AM
Google false rape news and this site is on the top ( thunbs up!). There are also: about 686,000 results for false rape news stories.

Anonymous said...

I have been busy inviting people to visit this site.

Anonymous said...

It appears someone in England has the same idea many of us men here in the U.S. do.

London, England: Creation Of A Men-Only Antifeminist Meet-Up Group In London

http://news.mensactivism.org/node/14544

Anonymous said...

Pierce, thank you sir for speaking out for those that don't have a voice. The brunt of the false rape hysteria is being shouldered by young men and boys who may not have developed the poise and articulation to challenge the gender feminist hysteria juggernaut quite yet.
There are very few educated and articulate men who dare speak out against the gender feminist juggernaut of missinformation..and as i said most of the young men and boys cannot do it for themselves.

Anonymous said...

More inspiration from:

http://corruptcourts.us


WORDS TO REMEMBER

(Regarding what's going on in many lives in "America," Just because you are here, in America, doing what is illegal, it doesn't make it American, nor compliant with what rights are guaranteed to all, whether you are a government employee or elected official.)

The initiation of a criminal prosecution, regardless of whether it prompts an arrest, immediately produces “a wrenching disruption of everyday life.” Young v. United States ex rel. Vuitton et Fils, 481 U.S. 787, 814 (1987). Every prosecution, like every arrest, “is a public act that may seriously interfere with the defendant's liberty, whether he is free on bail or not, and that may disrupt his employment, drain his financial resources, curtail his associations, subject him to public obloquy, and create anxiety in him, his family and his friends.” United States v. Marion, 404 U.S.307, 320 (1971). In short, an official accusation of serious crime has a direct impact on a range of identified liberty interests. That impact, moreover, is of sufficient magnitude to qualify as a deprivation of liberty meriting constitutional protection.*fn9

Albright v. Oliver, 510 U.S. 266, 295-296, 114 S.Ct. 807, 824-825, 1994.SCT. 40853 at ¶80 (1994) (Stevens, J., with whom Blackmun, J. joined, dissenting). The dissenting justices continued:

I can think of few powers that the State possesses which, if arbitrarily imposed, can harm liberty as substantially as the filing of criminal charges.

Albright, 510 U.S. at 312, 114 S.Ct. at 833,.1994.SCT.40853 at ¶119 (dissent)

. . . the Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment constrains the power of state governments to accuse a citizen of an infamous crime.

Albright, 510 U.S. at 316, 114 S.Ct. at 835, 1994.SCT.40853 at ¶127 (dissent).

Norm said...

what is disturbing is that when you type in "false rape" (without the quotes), no 'suggestions for completion' show up - you know, the little box with text in it that comes down - it doesn't come down; there is no 'allegations' or 'accusations'.

I know that google can control when it comes down...hmmm....

The Archivist said...

Norm,

And since that is how I would go out to find articles to post, I noticed when it stopped doing that. Just about the time of the Hofstra case. Interesting coincidence?

Norm said...

you mean it did used to drop down? Now I'm really suspicious.

Anonymous said...

Here's something you can do about it. Never refuse jury duty and if you're on a jury where a man is a defendant in any sort of case whether rape or something else, never convict him. At the very least there will be a hung jury. After a few thousand of these cases the prosecutors will get the idea about what is happening.Fight fire with fire. And on the other hand always look to convict any female on trial because you can be damn sure that a female is even on trial there is more than enough evidence to convict her.